Objects, memories and the stuff we acquire.
For me the grandfather clock signifies, not because its valuable or beautiful, but because my mother polished it as a little girl, and I think of her work, that gave such a deep shine to the wood. It stood in a miners cottage in the Welsh valleys, where black coal dust permeated everything - even inside the case.
It grieves me to think the clock may fall under the Auctioneers Hammer one day. No matter, tomorrow I may throw away what someone else will treasure, and someone else treasure what I once touched.
Now I am no preacher or bible puncher, but it has to be said that much wisdom has been hijacked by the Good Book. Build not Ye treasures on Earth, fits the sentiment I try to explain.
Does a Morgan 4/4 qualify as one of these treasures. Would I be happier without it? No - not just now!
Petrol prices falling. King pins greased. Helen and I trawling accommodation options for Switzerland and with summer on the way.
Be Happy, tomorrow could be wet and windy!
Petrol prices falling. King pins greased. Helen and I trawling accommodation options for Switzerland and with summer on the way.
Be Happy, tomorrow could be wet and windy!
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When doing nothing is the only option.
Now and again we all get a piece of news that knocks the stuffing out of us. It makes you feel wretched to the core, or worse. I have known what it means to be reduced to a level of despair, when help is a straw in the wind.
A phone call from my brother telling of my mothers fatal car accident was one of those moments - the guilt - the grief - the awful recognition of losing someone so adored. My brave face became unrecognisable and my brave heart was nowhere to be found. Time was the only healer that ever helped.
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Life choices are always to be made for good or ill and they demand attention. We lose some sleep, then ponder the impossible. Anyone can make a snap decision, that's the easy one. For the ditherer - from one who has dithered a plenty: If it's really what you want - make it snappy. If you don't know - sleep on it. If it troubles you for more than a month or two - ask a friend to make the choice for you.
The blue Draper dribbles everywhere - The Wanner is an easy winner. |
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